Forgotten Blessings!

I was having a really bad week! Actually a really bad month!!!!!! I was feeling overwhelmed with so many things. I couldn't keep up with the laundry, dishes, toys around the house, the checkbook, the kids, and anything else you can think of. All I wanted was my husband to stay home and help me get caught up. He was working overtime on a restaurant that started on fire, so he wasn't getting home until the kids were in bed. So I was having to get EVERYTHING done around the house all by myself. I felt like I was drowning, and as soon as I would catch a a breath of air to keep me from going under, here came a big wave of stuff to knock me back under water. I was so frustrated with myself, because I wasn't being who I knew and wanted to be. I felt like I was taking it out on Brielle, and that wasn't fair to her. I was so unorganized with birthday's coming up, and so much to do I felt hopeless. Stuff would sneak up on me and I wasn't prepared when it came to getting it done. I was almost at my wits end. Kelsie is teething, which makes her really irritable. In fact for 3 days straight she just wanted to be held. Even while she was sleeping. How do they know when you put them down when they are snoring? Anyways, I was just so frustrated and looking for an answer to some of my problems when I found this on a blog.


If you are frustrated with not knowing what to cook for dinner tonight- remember that there is a mother in Africa who just longs to have food to cook for her children.

If you feel overwhelmed by the children you have- think of the woman who cries herself to sleep at night begging Heavenly Father to be a mother.

If you are frustrated with a spouse who works overtime- think of the family with no job, no income who wonders where their next paycheck will come from.

If you worry about keeping all of the "stuff" cleaned up in your house and wish you didn't have so many toys to clean up- picture the family who lost everything in a fire , who have no "things" to clean up.


After I read that It made me think about all the blessings I have that I am taking for granted. I am so grateful for my husband. For the work he does to give us the things that we need. It doesn't bother me when he works overtime, but I DO MISS HIM when he is gone so much. I am so thankful that my kids have toys to play with, even though I am constantly stepping on them and putting them away. My biggest problem is trying to figure out what to cook for dinner, and make sure that what is cooked is liked by everyone. But I am very blessed to always be able to put food on the table, even if it's not EVERY ONES favorite. So in a nutshell I have had a change of heart and I have realized that my life could be way worse than it is. Just because it doesn't get done exactly when I want it done, remember that it takes time to get things done when you have 3 little mess makers at home. ( 4 if you count the oldest, Jason) Since I have been such a downer I would like to first, thank you and congratulations for making it through this post. Second, end on a good note. Last night my sweet baby Kelsie, who hardly ever cries, wasn't feeling good and just wanted to be held. She was actually like that all day, anyways. After obviously seeing my frustrations, my WONDERFUL husband cleaned the kitchen, and living room. There's more! AND did not one, but two loads of laundry while I fell asleep holding my baby! How did I get so lucky! I LOVE YOU HONEY! What a blessed woman I am! I LOVE MY FAMILY!!